EMPATHY SUMMIT
Saturday, November 2, 2024

 Exploring Empathy Circles:  
The Foundational Practice of the
Empathy Movement

Summit Description: Experienced practitioners delve into the essence of the Empathy Circle practice, elucidating its significance as the cornerstone and entry point of the Empathy Movement. The practice is based in mutual Active Listening. Speakers discuss; 

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Date: Saturday, November 2, 2024

Time: 9 am PT to 12:30 pm PT  - World Times

Location: Zoom https://zoom.us/j/9896109339  
RECORDING:   Part of the event will be recorded and posted to social media for educational and promotional purposes. You have an option of being in a non recorded breakout group. 


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Host: Ruth Cook

00:00 -  Introduction (10 min) 

04:00 - Edwin Rutsch - The history of the Empathy Circles development.

26:25 - Rasha Kutty - Three Years of Weekly Empathy Circles - Reflections and Learnings 

37:27 - Lou Zweier - Why the deceptively simple structure of the Empathy Circle is so effective

47:27 - Janna Weiss -  Building Empathic Community: An Empathy Circle Superpower 


57:22  Host: Cara Jean Wilson

58:10 - Speaker: Anita Nowak -  Empathic Listening for Inner Development and Outer Impact

1:07:43  - Speaker: Maria Ross  - What role can empathy circles play in a corporate environment? 

1:17:30 - Bill Filler - You can’t understand the Empathy circle unless you experience it

1:26:10 - Rob Volpe - The Importance of Listening in the 5 Steps to Empathy 

1:37:01 - Bob Brown - Why Empathy Circles Are So Effective 

1:42:46 - Annette Dubreuil - Adding Focusing to Empathy Circles


1:54:35  - Empathy Circle  Introduction Host: Janna Weiss

2:02:28 - Empathy Circle: Facilitated by Edwin Rutsch

2:59:23 - Debrief: Janna Weiss

3:22:26  - Closing  Edwin Rutsch

HOSTING TEAM AND SPEAKERS 

Program: Saturday, November 2, 2024

All times are Pacific Time

9:00 am PT  Introduction (10 min)

Host: Ruth Cook


The History of the Empathy Circles Development.

9:10 Speaker: Edwin Rutsch (20 min) - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract: An overview of the various influences of the practice, how it was conceived and developed, possibilities for the future.


Bio: Founding Director of The Empathy Center, developer and long term "evangelist" of the Empathy Circle practice.


Three Years of Weekly Empathy Circles - Reflections and Learnings.
9:30 Speaker: Rasha Kutty (10 min) - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract: Over the past three years, our weekly empathy circles have profoundly inspired participants across the globe to become better listeners and more reflective thinkers. In this talk, I will share key reflections and learnings gathered during this period, demonstrating how consistent participation in empathy circles leads to deeper connections and enhanced well-being. 


Bio: Rasha Kutty is the Founder and Chief Facilitator at Empathy Matters Private Limited, with master’s degrees in Management and Psychology, and certifications as an Instructional Designer, Empathic Intervision Facilitation, and Empathy Circles Facilitation.


Why the Deceptively Simple Structure of the Empathy Circle is So Effective.
9:40  Speaker:  Lou Zweier (10 min) - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract:  The Empathy Circle is a simple but very powerful practice for creating mutual understanding and connection; sometimes even healing and conflict resolution.  Understanding the role and importance of each of piece of its structure contributes to the effectiveness of the circle, and in encouraging participants to stay in the practice.  


Bio: Empathy Circle Facilitation Trainer and developer of the Empathy Circle Facilitation. Lou Zweier has been holding Empathy Circles, training Empathy Circle Facilitators, and working with Edwin Rutsch since 2016; he is a former executive of the California State University System, a current member of the Empathy Center Board of Directors, and a Principal Partner at the Authentic Leadership Center.


Building Empathic Community: An Empathy Circle Superpower 

9:50  Speaker: Janna Weiss - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract:  Empathy Circles are a fast track for building empathic community and realizing Martin Luther King's vision and dream for a peaceful society and world. We'll share joy in the Empathy Center's creative collaborations and partnerships, and in the versatility of the Empathy Circle.

Bio: is an Empathy Circle Facilitator and Trainer, and a Foundation for Developing Wisdom and Compassion 16 Guidelines accredited facilitator. Janna has a PhD from the University of Texas at Austin in Biological Sciences—Botany (ethnobotany). Janna is also a human rights activist and advocate for peace.

10:00 am PT 

Host: Cara Jean Wilson


Empathic Listening for Inner Development and Outer Impact

10:00 am Speaker: Anita Nowak  (10 min) - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract: As Bayo Akomolafe put it: "The times are urgent: Let us slow down.” We need to listen deeply to one another to heal our wounds and overcome the othering that divides us. Empathic listening is a practice that can help us reach higher levels of consciousness - perhaps even in time to save the world.


Bio:  Anita Nowak is a faculty member at the McGill Executive Institute, multiple TEDx Speaker, podcaster and author of Purposeful Empathy: Tapping Our hidden Superpower for Personal, Organizational, and Social Change  


What Role Can Empathy Circles Play in a Corporate Environment?
10:10 am Speaker: Maria Ross   (10 min) - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract: How can we remain human-focused and inclusive, and still maintain high performance, personal boundaries, and our own mental health, without being treated like villains?  And what role can empathy circles play in a corporate environment? Maria will help you balance between empathy AND accountability and where Empathy Circles, along with other modalities can work well to support teams. 


Bio: Maria Ross is a speaker, author, leadership trainer, podcaster, and empathy advocate who has spent decades helping forward-thinking teams connect and engage through empathy to accelerate growth. Her newest book is The Empathy Dilemma: How Successful Leaders Balance Performance, People, and Personal Boundaries. 


You Can’t Understand the Empathy Circle Unless You Experience it.
10:20 Speaker: Bill Filler (10 min) - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract: The structure of the Empathy Circle creates a mutually empathic atmosphere where one can be heard and understood and provide that experience to others. The rules are in place to provide that empathic experience, but that is not enough. At its core, The Empathy Circle is experiential.


Bio: : Bill Filler is retired special education teacher who has worked with at-risk children of all ages of rover 30 years. He has been involved in the Empathy Circle since 2017. He co-created the Empathy Circle Facilitator training with Lou Zweier and Edwin Rutsch, and has been holding trainings since March 2020. He is a member of the Empathy Center Board of Director


The Importance of Listening in the 5 Steps to Empathy
10:30 am Speaker: Rob Volpe  (10 min) - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract:  It doesn't matter how curious and open we are. If we aren't listening, empathy will remain out of reach. Rob explains where Active Listening fits on the way to reaching empathy and how the Empathy Circle skills can help you get there. 


Bio: Rob is an Empathy Activist and author of the award-winning book Tell Me More About That: Solving the Empathy Crisis One Conversation at a Time 


Why Empathy Circles Are So Effective
10:40 am Speaker: Bob Brown   (10 min) - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract:   Being in an empathy circle fosters healthy brain chemistry.  It affirms my dignity as a human being.  It gives me the confidence to take my rightful place in the human adventure.


Bio: Bob Brown is a pilgrim on the spiritual journey. For years, he hosted an Empathy Tent in Thousand Oaks, California and offered empathic listening.


Adding Focusing to Empathy Circles
10:50 am Speaker: Annette Dubreuil  (10 min) - To Video, Summary, AI, Outline, Full Transcripts

Abstract:  Focusing is a deeply embodied practice that gives us access to the wisdom of our bodies, whispered to us via our felt sense. Empathy Circles that use Focusing practice allow for deep sharing with rich details; these details make space for the sharing to cross with our own experiences resulting with greater resonance. 


If combined with empathic reflections of how something relates to our own experience, we can have an increased sense of common humanity that builds our self-compassion; this is especially true for empathy circles that Focus on a specific topic. 

 


Bio: Annette Dubreuil is an Embodied Creativity Facilitator, Coach and Focusing Teacher for people who want to transform themselves to change the world—to make it more caring and flourishing. 


11 am PT:  Empathy Circle - 90 min

Empathy Circle Host: Janna Weiss

A 90 min participatory dialogue using the Empathy Circle process.

How to Empathy Circle   (10 min) 

Empathy Circle (1:00 hr)  

Debrief (15 min)  

Next Steps: (2 min) Edwin Rutsch

Closing

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> Next Empathy Summit  is January 4:  
https://www.empathysummit.com/dates/Nov-2-2024-Empathy-Circles

> See Schedule for Empathy Circles Worldwide 
https://www.empathycircle.com/schedule 


Empathy Summit Debrief Summary
2:59:23 - Debrief Host Janna Weiss

The Empathy Summit debrief highlighted the positive experiences of participants in the empathy circles. Attendees shared their gratitude and insights, emphasizing the depth of connection and shared experiences. Key themes included 

Newcomers to empathy circles expressed appreciation for the learning and personal growth. The summit underscored the potential of empathy circles in conflict resolution, problem-solving, and fostering a more empathetic society. Edwin Rutsch emphasized the need for continued efforts to build a more empathic culture.


Based on the context provided, here are some key learnings and insights from the Empathy Summit that can be applied to future events:




Empathy Summit Debrief Outline

Speaker 2  1:01  

Okay, so welcome back. Thank you for staying for this empathy circle part it is, I think, as wonderful as the presentations are the very best part of the empathy Summit, and we'd love to hear about your experience in the empathy circles. So please share, take 30 seconds. How was your experience in the empathy circle? And let me see there are 25 of us here. So if it's alright, I'll call on you. Is that alright? Yeah, let me change my view so I can see everyone.


Annette Dubreuil  2:18  

So lovely to be here today. Great to hear how focusing, sorry. Empathy circles are coming into workplaces. That was really exciting to hear, and I look forward to learning more about that work. And my experience in the empathy circle was great. We got we had a lot of resonance of similar shared experiences. And it was we had a couple themes, and we were talking a bit, quite a bit, about why one might be tired with this work, and that was really interesting. So thank you.


Ingrid Hirtz  3:06  
Yes, I'm super excited to see Maria Theresa here, and also Janet. It's really great. I love those. And Jesse. Love to see you here too. There was in the circle, there was in a short time, really, some great depth that we reached. And this was quite touching. And that's it. Thank you.


Speaker 4  3:47  
Thank you. I'm so happy in this summit. The first time I attend this empathy summit, I had so much to learn from everybody. Thank you all for sharing and answered a lot of question I have on this empathy circle, and I learned the rich history of empathy circle, and I'm really encouraged in this past the learning. It's still learning curve for me, and I'm so grateful for everybody's participation and supporting. Thank you all.


Speaker 5  4:32  

Oh, yes, I thought it was very valuable to hear everybody and then to have the opportunity to express myself so enriching and very worthwhile to get the different viewpoints people and yet realize how much we have in common that we're really not that different. So thank you and bless you for. Putting this vent on. Appreciate it.


Speaker 7  5:36  

it is my first time in an empathy circle. So I learned a lot as to how to, you know, go through the different roles. And appreciated all the participants in my group very much. And also, you know, I'm also very thankful for just this experience and all of everyone who's putting this on and look forward to, you know, looking more into this, into the future. So all the different ways that all the speakers are using the tools I love that and just have a great hope for how this can impact humanity, which we really need it right now.


Speaker 8  6:33  

This is a learning experience. I there's some incredible people there i i wish they were in my circle of life, right where I am now, but, but thank you for sharing.


Speaker 9  7:01  

I feel just filled with gratitude that this is still going on. I'm so grateful to you, Edwin and the whole team. Yeah, I'm a bit I'm an NBC practitioner for many, many years, since the early 90s, and so this is just right up my alley, very parallel to my my deepest values. And so I'm thrilled to, once in a while, be able to be a part, and I'd like to hopefully get more involved and be more of a part. Thank you to everybody. You're all remarkable people. To me. Thank you.


Speaker 10  7:43  

A tremendous amount of gratitude. I'm a disciple of NVC, of nonviolent communication. Have always been in thrall with the process, and this seems like a logical avenue to continue the growth in that area and so very grateful to Ingrid, who sent me the email and invited me and all the wonderful work she and Daniel have been doing, and just very grateful and hopefully and eager to learn more and a lot of hope, a lot of hope. So thank you.


Speaker 11  8:26  

Oh so much gratitude to this and everyone here just we are the change. You know, if we tell two friends, and they tell two friends, pretty soon, everybody will be able to preach or experience this sort of change within ourselves and within each other. So thank you, Edwin for the empathy circles, and look forward to doing more.


Speaker 12  9:08  

Well, thank you for unmuting me. I'm very grateful too, because I trained with Edwin way back and then participated for some time with the extinction rebellion empathy circles. But I think they stopped for a while, and this is my first one. And again, I'm always filled with dread that I won't get things right when I've got I'm on the spectrum and ADHD, so listening is one of my biggest fears. Oh gosh, thank you. Co host Cara Jean, so you probably understand how it is. It's really hard, especially when people start talking about quantum physics. It's really blinking, really hard. Oh, God. Anyway, it was nice to meet some other humans. And no seriously, who being human, being human for. Me is having compassion, and there's so little of it in the world. And thank heavens for these kind of circles. Thank


Speaker 13  10:23  

yes, here we are. Yes, I am a lot more relaxed than I was a few hours ago. I was great to speak to Jonathan again, and to me Tara, and to be able to interact with people that actually listen.


Speaker 14  11:05  

thank you very much. This is my second time, and I feel like having knowledge I need and and I feel listened and even listening to other. Thank you very much.


Speaker 15  11:47  

again, deep appreciation and gratitude, and I will go back and listen to the parts I missed the first hour. But this always brings it back to my own self, honesty and the need, not only for compassion for self and others, with empathy, but also courage to change. I feel that, or it's not even feeling this mirrors this work, mirrors my my patterns of relinquishing control and also being open to something that takes a lot of courage in terms of trust when there is a power imbalance. So it starts with empathy, absolutely and hearing others and being heard.

But there's another step that I'm seeing. It takes a bit of courage, and that's a mystery about the next piece of it, when things don't change in our culture or with people who have more power. So I appreciate the practice immensely and just pondering on the next stage of it. Thank you.


Speaker 16  13:17  
so Wow, I shared in my circle, Edwin, that I haven't been in one of these circles in, I don't know, 10 or more years, and so grateful to you and this community for continuing to do this in the world that we so need it. This was a really rich experience for me to be in a pure empathy circle, because I've been doing NVC for like, 20 years, and I kept making guesses instead of just reflecting. And I love this practice. I love it. We so need this, and I'm so grateful. Thank you so much to my group, to the circle, to all of you.


Speaker 17  14:30  

Okay, sorry, I couldn't do it technically. Yeah. Thank you for creating these empathy circles, and it has been a wonderful experience also to be at this summit, and also, thanks to all the participants, especially in our empathy circles. Circle, we were blessed to have two musicians, and we also shared that music is a great way to feel interconnectedness and also a way of empathy somehow because it bridges people.


Speaker 13  15:10  

I really enjoyed the small circle I was in, and I feel that it was a refreshing, you know, change of pace to be heard by people that actually intend to listen.


Daniel Hirtz  15:47  

Okay, this I really enjoyed the connection. And what I continuously like, what I enjoy so much is that we can connect with each other so quickly. I don't know you, but, and yet, I feel so connected to you. And this gives me tremendous hope. You know, I feel like all of us, all of humanity, just needs to turn into that, and we'll be good, you know, okay, if we, if we can unleash that empathetic wave.


Speaker 18  16:33  

hi, thanks very much. Jenna, yeah, I want to thank everybody in the the empathy circle that we had. I was in the circle with Danielle, Daniel playing the drums, and Craig, who is also a musician, and showed his music piece. Thank you for your patience, everybody. Yeah, I really look forward to joining you all again in this process. Thank you very much. Thank you.


Speaker 19  17:24  
I really want to thank Kara for having me here. I really feel seen and heard, and is just really a great experience to be a part of. And I learned so much more about empathy, and this should be really taught around the world in schools, businesses and governments and things. So I really appreciate this. Thank you.


Speaker 20  17:55  

an amazing gathering of people, everyone focusing as hard as possible to listen, I want to thank Edwin for his and just endless work To keep the movement going, and Eugenia and of course, Bill is hilarious. I'm just gonna let other people talk.


Speaker 8  18:55  

So just want to extend my gratitude to Edwin for this amazing process that has been has changed my life for the better. I enjoyed our our circle Today, and every opportunity I have, me present in an empathy circle, I too, hope that schools empathy circles become part of the curriculum in schools so that children can learn to hear, really hear what's being said, and not be reactive and respond. I think it could save lives, and I really would like to see more circles everywhere, globally, so I'm certainly promoting them so, and I look forward to our next summit. Thank you.


Jonathan Gordon  20:02  

well, thank you. Well, we had a lovely empathy circle, and my two participants I was hosting just resonated. They were sharing their frustration with modernity, actually, with politics, and I just felt like it was just, I'm not alone because I've it was just so lovely knowing that other people kind of feel the frustration I feel, and I'll just leave it at that. Thank you.


Bill Filler  20:51  

Sure, I just appreciate everybody being here and, you know, taking the initiative to, you know, engage in empathy and and also spread it. It's a great a great medicine compared to what I'm getting on media. Thank you.


Unknown Speaker  21:30  

okay, I finally got unmuted there. Yeah, it was a wonderful circle. I really like what Jeanette was saying about there's always a learning process, and there's always room for growth. And this concept of being in a circle and the process being simple, and it's a place where you're not going to be judged for what you say anyway,


Speaker 21  22:14  

you're just going to be heard. Is such a phenomenon that really can't be found anywhere else on this planet, and that's the potential, I think, for peace building to remember that we need to apply these lessons outside the circle to really Make the impact. So thank you very much to everyone who worked hard to put this together. Much gratitude to Edwin for his brilliance and keeping this simple. I do think that's the beauty of it. Thank you.


Speaker 1  23:13  

So I went right as I went to go get coffee. I would say gratitude. I already think I said that, but I would say it again. So much gratitude for everyone who spoke, for everyone who made this happen, specifically to Jonathan for making everything look so seamless, like we all have this together so well, and Edwin for creating this space and this process with your team of experts, Bill and Lou and everyone else who's gotten to be involved in this. I use it every single day in my personal coaching practice, I train it at all of my COVID events, because I think that it's that it's that simple thing, that it just allows us to human better, and as a neuro, spicy person myself more human, more better, more better my life. Thanks so much.


Speaker 2  23:58  

Thank you. Kara, so I'll say something, and then I'll turn it over to Edwin, and then you can share how it was for you. Is that sound? Okay? Edwin, so, yeah. So we had a beautiful empathy circle, and thank you for coming. We had three people who were brand new to an empathy circle, and and Jeanette was in my circle. And it was quite moving. Thank you. And as for the future, I I feel, I believe, that we haven't even begun to tap the potential of this community in this practice for problem solving and for conflict resolution. So that's kind of so with that kind of view to the future. Thank you all very much for this opportunity, and I'm very honored and very happy to be with everyone. Thank you. Go ahead. Edwin, okay,


Edwin Rutsch  24:49  

thanks. Okay. I want to thank the speakers and the volunteers and the participants for taking part and working to. To build this empathic culture, where we've talked about the empathy circle, but it's only a gateway practice to a larger vision of transforming society to be more mutually empathic, and that just means for people to listen to each other, work out their differences, collaborate together to just to create more well being and flourishing for humanity. And for me, it seems that empathy is sort of the core, the gateway value for that and that mutuality too, and I love in our circle, the shared working together on our project. You know, having that community, but working towards something in a constructive and innovative and creative and connecting direction. So with that, we're kind of coming to the close, and I'm going to post into the chat. Maybe we already posted it. Let me see.

What are your top takeaways from the presentations about Exploring Empathy Circles: The Foundational Practice of the Empathy Movement? Or whatever is on your mind. 

Empathy Circle 1 Facilitated by Edwin

Summary

The Empathy Summit focused on the effectiveness and impact of empathy circles. Participants shared their experiences, highlighting the simplicity and power of empathy circles in fostering personal connection and community. One speaker noted the circles' role in simplifying life and enhancing enjoyment. Another emphasized the potential for empathy circles to transform society, despite the small participant numbers. Concerns about exhaustion after empathy circles were discussed, with suggestions that the release of pent-up emotions might contribute to this. The conversation also touched on the importance of understanding and following others' perspectives to maintain focus and avoid fatigue.

Transcript

https://otter.ai/u/T-W-fx-2GWgCLcVICT2AVMiMFoo?view=transcript

Action Items


Outline

Empathy Circle Workshop Introduction


Personal Impact of Empathy Circles


Community and Hope in Empathy Circles


Bringing Empathy to the Workplace


Challenges and Benefits of Empathy Circles


Universal Laws and Empathy Circles


Fractals and Growth of Empathy Circles


Personal Reflections and Anxiety in Empathy Circles


Understanding and Connection in Empathy Circles


Closing Remarks and Gratitude


What are your top takeaways from the presentations about Exploring Empathy Circles: The Foundational Practice of the Empathy Movement? Or whatever is on your mind.
Empathy Circle 2 Facilitated by Ruth

The Empathy Summit session on November 2nd, 2024, focused on exploring empathy circles. Participants shared their experiences and perspectives on empathy.


Outline

Empathy Circle Introduction and Initial Setup


Empathy Circle Guidelines and First Speaker


Craig's Experience with Empathy Circles


Daniel Hirtz on Empathy and Meditation


Maria's Reflections on Empathy and Cultural Hierarchies


Mohammed Andrew on Empathy and Understanding Feelings


Daniel Hirtz on Empathy and Oneness


Maria's Reflections on Empathy and Active Listening


Mohammed Andrew on Empathy and Cultural Respect


Daniel Hirtz on Empathy and Music


Craig's Reflections on Empathy and Connection


Final Reflections and Closing Remarks


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